Dear Souls and Hearts Members,
Our Souls and Hearts philosopher-in residence continues his exploration of the moral aspects of daydreaming, focusing on voluntariness of internal acts. This weekly reflection provides initial guidance on how to evaluate the moral qualities of your daydreams, grounded in Catholic understanding of the human person.
The Metaphysics of Voluntariness
Monty De La Torre, Ph.D.
In last week’s reflection, we gave a general metaphysical deconstruction of the human act. In today’s reflection, I want to dive deeper into the topic of voluntariness and its application to the act of daydreaming.
As noted previously by Fr. Austin, voluntariness or a voluntary act is an act “…which proceeds from the will with a knowledge of the end.” I intend and choose to do something because I know what I want (the end) and how to get it (the means), and I have the freedom to engage.
Fr. Austin notes that our intention to do something can vary in degree. He distinguishes between four different levels of intention.
Levels of intention
According to Fr. Austin, someone with an actual and virtual intention is acting voluntarily because in both cases there is knowledge and consent/choice at play. In habitual or interpretative intentions, knowledge is missing, so the act is not voluntary in the fullest sense. (Fr. Austin does believe that habitual intentions do fulfill certain obligations, as noted in the example above).
When we apply these principles to daydreaming, unless we intend actually or virtually to daydream, then the daydreaming is not a voluntary act in the strict sense as defined above. There must be knowledge and consent (which presupposes choice, counsel, and intention). So, if I know that I’m daydreaming and I consent to it, then I’m responsible for that act of daydreaming.
Admittedly, it’s not always clear whether we have full knowledge and consent. Sometimes it seems that we just happen to be daydreaming. Sometimes we become aware of the fact that we’re daydreaming in the middle of a daydream.
I’ll have some thoughts to share on the issue of knowledge and consent below, but for now, let’s take a closer look at the issue of responsibility and its connection to consent/voluntariness. Fr. Austin provides some helpful insights.
Modifiers of voluntariness
If we have full knowledge and consent, then voluntariness is perfect. If there is a lack in either or both, the voluntariness is imperfect. If knowledge and consent are entirely missing, then there is no voluntariness.
A reduction in voluntariness (imperfect voluntariness) means a reduction in responsibility. So, Fr. Austin asks: “What renders voluntariness imperfect, reducing the specifically human character of the act and making the agent less responsible?” Below are five factors that can lessen personal responsibility.
Going further, “the voluntariness of such acts depends on the amount of advertence at the moment when the act is performed, and also on the amount of effort we put in to get rid of the habit.” This is easier said than done. For example, how much responsibility is mitigated because of an addiction is very difficult to determine. Fr. Austin allows for voluntariness to be destroyed due to some “deeper psychosis.” He continues,
“The mentally ill may have complete self-control at times or along certain lines, and none or little at other times or in other forms of behavior. A kleptomaniac may be a very rational person except when under the spell of this particular compulsion; these acts are involuntary, but not the other acts the person performs. Each case is different and must be judged by itself.”
Our capacity, knowledge, and freedom to gain knowledge and to choose in light of that knowledge can become impaired or weakened. Responsibility can be diminished or non-existent. This, I believe, can be helpful when addressing the influence that our parts play in our moral life.
If we observe the times when we become blended, then perhaps we can identify one of these modifiers at work within our internal family. We can experience these modifiers through our parts. If that is the case, then to what extent are we responsible for the acts we commit due to the reactions and impulses of that fearful part within us?
Since parts aren’t actual people, each person responsible for his or her own actions. However, a grasp or general awareness of what can modify our voluntariness can help us to have more compassion toward ourselves. You can empathize with a fearful part of you because fear has a vice grip on you and fear can lessen your responsibility.
Daydreaming, knowledge, and voluntariness
In addressing the issue of knowledge and consent in a daydream, it seems that there could be something like the 7 parts of a human act mentioned in the previous reflection. We often daydream or fantasize about some good and its pursuit. If there is an end and a means, and knowledge and consent, then this entails the various parts of a human act. A daydream would be an internal act. An act that stays within our mind without any necessary extrinsic manifestation.
However, as noted above, it’s not certain that we are always aware of what is taking place at the inception or in the middle of a daydream. We may start off engaging in a human act, i.e., an act of reflection where knowledge and consent are present with either an actual or virtual intention, but at some point, we can slip into an act of man where voluntariness is missing.
(Also, it seems that we can lose control over the contents of our daydreams. Again, we may choose to daydream about A but soon slip into daydreaming about B without realizing it.).
So, do we have full knowledge and consent of our daydreams? It doesn’t seem like we always do.
Should we make a big fuss about it? As a matter of counsel, I don’t think so. However, we should take into consideration the content and frequency of the daydreaming (e.g., someone who daydreams multiple times a day or whose daydreams are becoming maladaptive, as described in Dr. Peter’s July 19, 2023 weekly reflection titled Daydreams: The Secular Experts Speak as opposed to someone who daydreams once a week, etc.).
Is engaging in daydreaming bad? It depends on why we are daydreaming and on the contents of the daydream. The act of daydreaming itself is not intrinsically evil. The evil would enter in through the intention and/or circumstances.
Once again, thank you, Dr. De La Torre, for helping us better understand the concept of voluntariness as it relates to daydreams, and the ways our parts may be at play. Next week’s reflection will offer guidance on how to daydream well, in a way that leads us closer to God, relying on the writings of St. Ignatius of Loyola. Remember, you can see our entire library of weekly reflections in our archive.
A reminder to join me live for Interior Integration for Catholics, Episode 121
The ancient Greek philosopher Epictetus said “When you are offended at any man’s faults, turn to yourself and study your own faults.” Join me live on Zoom from 7:30 PM to 9:00 PM Eastern time, on Thursday, September 14, 2023 for IIC Episode 121, titled Connecting with your Narcissistic Parts Inside when we will take Epictetus seriously and work to recognize and understand narcissism in our own parts much more clearly and empathetically. Doing our own internal work around our own narcissism is an essential prerequisite for responding effectively to narcissism in others. Register beforehand for our live episode with this link.
Also, stay tuned for Episode 120, which releases on Monday, September 4, 2023, all about understanding narcissism – not as narcissism is usually discussed, describing a single, monolithic personality – but rather from a much more nuanced perspective, as characterizing a part rather than the whole of a person.
Be With the Word for the 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
Dr. Gerry and I invite you to broaden your vision in this week’s 41-minute episode, See in 3D By Renewing Your Mind. We discuss how we need to overcome psychological obstacles in order to see more clearly with eyes of faith.
This week’s readings illustrate the transformation from seeing in the two-dimensional human perspective to the three-dimension that includes God’s grace and you can listen to us read them aloud here.
Onboarding the new Resilient Catholics Community cohort
Great news to share! More than 100 new members are in the final stages of joining the RCC. Their onboarding process helps them get in touch with their parts and those parts’ roles (including the self-absorption of narcissism and the distractions of daydreaming) in their systems through their individual IMK reports. We will likely have 12 companies of nine members each embarking on a human formation adventure, a pilgrimage of resolving deficits in the natural realm and growing closer to the three Persons of the Trinity, especially God our Father, and entering into a deeper relationship with Mary our Mother – our spiritual parents, our primary parents. Programming for that cohort begins the week of September 17, 2023.
If you enjoy these weekly reflections and the Interior Integration for Catholics podcast, and especially if you resonate with the experiential exercises, the RCC may be a great fit for you. Check out our landing page for all the details and to sign up for the interest list so that you can be notified of important developments. The RCC opens for new applications on December 1, 2023 for our sixth cohort; programming for that cohort will begin in March 2024.
Final call for Catholic therapists for fall groups!
The Interior Therapist Community (ITC) consists of Catholic therapists how to modify Internal Family Systems (IFS) in order to ground IFS in an authentic Catholic anthropology. Central to this mission is for our ITC members to focus on their own parts – to do their own internal work.
Recognizing, moving towards, and working with our own parts helps us to be more available to help our clients in our work life. In our personal lives, it allows us to grow as people who are more available to love God and others with our whole hearts.
Thus, the ITC is offering new introductory Foundations Experiential Groups (FEGs) starting in September, some led by Dr. Peter Martin and some by me. If you are a Catholic therapist or counselor or in graduate training toward licensure as a mental health professional, check out our ITC landing page for more information. You can register for the new groups with this link. Reach out to Jody Garneau, the ITC Lead Navigator with questions at [email protected] or get in touch with me at 317.567.9594 or [email protected]. Registration will close on September 6 and some groups are either full or close to full.
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In Christ and His Mother,
Dr. Peter
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